The information I was given ~

Much of the explanations I've received from Rob's care Team have been likened to MS. I imagine it's easier for them, and for me, to have it put into a perspective that I can relate to. Not that TBI is too far off from MS. Both are neurological and affect everyone in different ways.
Like me, Rob can have a "good day" followed by a "bad day." Unlike me, Rob's "bad days" will not increase the severity of his injury, which is good.
His Team seemed to be understanding about how devastating the visitation restrictions can feel. What they told me is to renew myself, work on the to-do list I have for our residence, and respect that the visiting restriction is necessary for his Care Team to do their jobs. I was told to explain the weekend visitation restriction in the same manner - that it's in Rob's best interest and an important aspect of his rehabilitation.
I spoke with Trooper Hunt's supervisor at Troop D yesterday regarding the accident investigation. Due to the serious injury Rob sustained, this investigation may not be complete for at least 6 months. Property damage claims, and any other insurance claims, will not be able to be paid until that investigation is final. They apparently need to do full scale reconstructions of the accident scene, and they need to conduct an interview with Rob. No, he won't remember the accident, but it is a requirement on their end to see what, if anything, he can tell them about that night. I think they're trying to catch him, to be honest. It was alluded to that Rob didn't take evasive action to avoid the accident. I think they want to know if he remembers leaving home, and possibly stopping somewhere on his way, which would have caused him to be running late. I'm HOPING our attorney will be able to be present for that interview when it occurs.
Now, one good thing is that "medical issues" are no longer a primary concern for Rob. The emphasis has shifted to rebuilding skills so Rob's able to enjoy the highest possible quality of life. One thing his Team is preparing both of us for, is that Rob may not be completely aware of how his injury will impact his life until he tries to perform familiar tasks. They said he could become very frustrated when he realizes he's not as good at something he used to do well and will need to be provided a lot of support to decrease his frustration and increase his motivation. Rob will need to be praised for good performance to enhance his self-esteem.
I was also told that I should begin to file for SSDI benefits for Rob. :( Even if Rob is able to return to the workforce, they told me it makes more sense for him to consider working part time, rather than full time. Just as with MS, fatigue is going to be a big problem for Rob.
Rob's outcome may not be known for several months, or even years.
There's never going to be a "fix", so I've been told to help counsel our children that, together, and in time, we will accept what we cannot change. As Rob always says, "It is what it is." He always said it to me when I was upset over something MS was taking away from me, and now, we'll all be saying it together.
Life goes on, but the human spirit can move mountains. More so with God's direction, guidance, and backing. "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their hard work. For if one of them should fall, the other one can raise his partner up. But how will it be with just the one who falls when there is not another to raise him up? Moreover, if two lie down together, they also will certainly get warm; but how can just one keep warm? And if somebody could overpower one alone, two together could make a stand against him. And a threefold cord cannot quickly be torn in two." (Eccl. 4:9-12)