It is beyond comprehension how some feel I have been "self-centered." I am tied too tightly to the seat of an emotional roller-coaster to even try to keep this up anymore.
What justifies scrutinizing and ridiculing me behind my back when I have been by Rob's side every moment possible, making the best decisions I can regarding his care?
I made sure I posted an update as often as possible, even though that sometimes meant fighting off sheer exhaustion after an overwhelming 14-hour day at the hospital. I am at the point of feeling sorry I even bothered.
I can no longer handle the mockery.
Please be assured of my sincere appreciation of those who have been living this experience with me via the blog and have genuinely cared about the well-being of our ENTIRE family.
The End.
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Thursday, October 7, 2010
KNEEdy
Rob saw the orthopedic doctor this afternoon for the pain he's having in his left knee.
He took a trip down the hall to get an x-ray before the doctor came in to see him. Joel got to see pictures of daddy's bones!
Rob was examined and the doctor mentioned, again, that Rob's recovery has been remarkable. Unlike the doctor's findings, which were unremarkable. :) (That means he wasn't finding anything wrong, so it's a good thing.)
Since Rob is unable to take anti-inflammatories because of the brain bleed, it was opined that the best treatment would be a cortisone injection under Rob's kneecap.
The injection was kind of neat. The doctor showed Joel the "snow in a bottle" that gets sprayed onto the skin to freeze it for the injection. Everything went well and Rob said his knee went numb pretty quickly from the numbing agent that's mixed with the medication in the injection.
Rob seems pretty comfortable now, but the doctor said he may experience some discomfort through the next day or so, since it takes about 24 to 48 hours for the cortisone to start being effective.
The follow-up appointment is in three weeks. If the injection didn't ease Rob's knee pain, the doctor may order an MRI of the knee to get a better look inside. Hopefully that won't be necessary. :)
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
He took a trip down the hall to get an x-ray before the doctor came in to see him. Joel got to see pictures of daddy's bones!
Rob was examined and the doctor mentioned, again, that Rob's recovery has been remarkable. Unlike the doctor's findings, which were unremarkable. :) (That means he wasn't finding anything wrong, so it's a good thing.)
Since Rob is unable to take anti-inflammatories because of the brain bleed, it was opined that the best treatment would be a cortisone injection under Rob's kneecap.
The injection was kind of neat. The doctor showed Joel the "snow in a bottle" that gets sprayed onto the skin to freeze it for the injection. Everything went well and Rob said his knee went numb pretty quickly from the numbing agent that's mixed with the medication in the injection.
Rob seems pretty comfortable now, but the doctor said he may experience some discomfort through the next day or so, since it takes about 24 to 48 hours for the cortisone to start being effective.
The follow-up appointment is in three weeks. If the injection didn't ease Rob's knee pain, the doctor may order an MRI of the knee to get a better look inside. Hopefully that won't be necessary. :)
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
I guess I should apologize...
I try not to let it hurt my feelings when I find out how people really feel. Whatever "BS" some believe has been added to MY blog about MY husband is what I needed in order to cope with a devastating situation. I understand that there are those who can't seem to understand that I, too, needed strength and help in order to endure and cope with, not only what was happening to my husband, but my own disability. In many ways, my blog was my only way to communicate with friends and family while I was working hard at helping, supporting, learning, and comforting my husband in the hospital.
For those who think negatively of me for doing the absolute best I could through everything, I can only say that I'm sorry you feel that way.
There is something about me my husband loves and has loved for over 16 years. Our children are amazing, intelligent, and well-rounded. I'm proud of the way they are being raised and the beautiful people they are.
I suppose there's no longer a need to continue blogging about Rob's progress. There are other means of contacting us for those who wonder how he's doing. In some ways, I'm sorry that I put so much effort into making sure I posted as much as I did about things that were taking place. Especially since through it all I was being labeled negatively and some thought I wasn't providing "real updates".
For those who truly appreciated the blog and went through this journey with me ~ thank you for being genuine. (((hugs))) Thank you for your honest display of loving-kindness.
For those who think negatively of me for doing the absolute best I could through everything, I can only say that I'm sorry you feel that way.
There is something about me my husband loves and has loved for over 16 years. Our children are amazing, intelligent, and well-rounded. I'm proud of the way they are being raised and the beautiful people they are.
I suppose there's no longer a need to continue blogging about Rob's progress. There are other means of contacting us for those who wonder how he's doing. In some ways, I'm sorry that I put so much effort into making sure I posted as much as I did about things that were taking place. Especially since through it all I was being labeled negatively and some thought I wasn't providing "real updates".
For those who truly appreciated the blog and went through this journey with me ~ thank you for being genuine. (((hugs))) Thank you for your honest display of loving-kindness.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
The Physiatrist Surprise
Rob saw the physiatrist, Dr. O'Keefe, this morning. We were both surprised and very encouraged by this appointment! :)
Much of the appointment was spent reviewing what happened to Rob and what treatment he's undergoing. Dr. O'Keefe asked Rob if he felt ready to drive again, to which Rob replied no. We told Dr. O'Keefe that Rob will be having neuropsych testing next week with Dr. Tolsdorf. Dr. O'Keefe was happy to hear that and requested a copy of that report.
The doctor asked Rob to remember three words. He had him do some math in his head, spell some words backwards, checked his reflexes, and watched him walk. Rob was able to repeat the three words back after all the distractions in between, which was fabulous! He did excellent on the math and spelling, too. Dr. O'Keefe said he has increased reflexes on his left side, which is explained by the bleed that caused the stroke-like affect on the left. He had Rob follow his finger with his eyes and he said that the Fourth Nerve Palsy has improved! :) That's incredible news.
Dr. O'Keefe was very impressed with the recovery Rob has made. So impressed, Rob is discontinuing one of his medications, the amantadine. The doctor said amantadine should have been started in UMASS because it works to stabilize the secondary effects of the brain injury and helps to improve coordination. The sooner after the injury the medication is started, the quicker the progress of recovery. Dr. O'Keefe definitely feels that Rob doesn't need that medicine anymore. :)
He also feels that Rob's ready to take his driving evaluation. For that, we'll be going to Easter Seals in Meriden. Dr. O'Keefe is going to do that referral when he returns to his regular office in New London tomorrow. He discussed with Rob that people drive with one eye all the time and he may just need to wear a patch while driving to clear up the double-vision. Even with my optic neuritis, when it's bright outside I have to close my left eye often while I'm driving and have to turn my head more to be able to see with my right eye. He explained to Rob that he may just have to get used to some adjustments for a while.
Some people are really going to love to read this news: DR. O'KEEFE WOULD LIKE TO BEGIN EASING ROB BACK TO WORK! :)
The doctor's going to wait until after he gets Dr. Tolsdorf's report and opinion on employability, but does expect to officially give clearance for Rob to return to work on a part-time basis (4 hours/shift) at Rob's next appointment with him on November 2nd. Dr. O'Keefe is aware that Rob works third shift, so we will have to adjust the schedule of his medications, but he is confident that Rob can begin easing himself back to work.
We were both very surprised! I'm so happy!! :D Rob seemed to be happy to hear how remarkably he has recovered, too. ♥ YAY!!! :)
Much of the appointment was spent reviewing what happened to Rob and what treatment he's undergoing. Dr. O'Keefe asked Rob if he felt ready to drive again, to which Rob replied no. We told Dr. O'Keefe that Rob will be having neuropsych testing next week with Dr. Tolsdorf. Dr. O'Keefe was happy to hear that and requested a copy of that report.
The doctor asked Rob to remember three words. He had him do some math in his head, spell some words backwards, checked his reflexes, and watched him walk. Rob was able to repeat the three words back after all the distractions in between, which was fabulous! He did excellent on the math and spelling, too. Dr. O'Keefe said he has increased reflexes on his left side, which is explained by the bleed that caused the stroke-like affect on the left. He had Rob follow his finger with his eyes and he said that the Fourth Nerve Palsy has improved! :) That's incredible news.
Dr. O'Keefe was very impressed with the recovery Rob has made. So impressed, Rob is discontinuing one of his medications, the amantadine. The doctor said amantadine should have been started in UMASS because it works to stabilize the secondary effects of the brain injury and helps to improve coordination. The sooner after the injury the medication is started, the quicker the progress of recovery. Dr. O'Keefe definitely feels that Rob doesn't need that medicine anymore. :)
He also feels that Rob's ready to take his driving evaluation. For that, we'll be going to Easter Seals in Meriden. Dr. O'Keefe is going to do that referral when he returns to his regular office in New London tomorrow. He discussed with Rob that people drive with one eye all the time and he may just need to wear a patch while driving to clear up the double-vision. Even with my optic neuritis, when it's bright outside I have to close my left eye often while I'm driving and have to turn my head more to be able to see with my right eye. He explained to Rob that he may just have to get used to some adjustments for a while.
Some people are really going to love to read this news: DR. O'KEEFE WOULD LIKE TO BEGIN EASING ROB BACK TO WORK! :)
The doctor's going to wait until after he gets Dr. Tolsdorf's report and opinion on employability, but does expect to officially give clearance for Rob to return to work on a part-time basis (4 hours/shift) at Rob's next appointment with him on November 2nd. Dr. O'Keefe is aware that Rob works third shift, so we will have to adjust the schedule of his medications, but he is confident that Rob can begin easing himself back to work.
We were both very surprised! I'm so happy!! :D Rob seemed to be happy to hear how remarkably he has recovered, too. ♥ YAY!!! :)
Sunday, October 3, 2010
October's off to an excellent start. :)
Rob's being pushed harder in Physical Therapy. A lot of what his therapist is doing with him is stuff he was doing while at Gaylord. While they're not familiar exercises to Rob, I remember him doing these things and can see a huge improvement in his ability to perform the exercises. It's fantastic! :)
There's also much improvement in Rob's Speech Therapy tasks. He's learning how to strategize more effectively, which is demonstrated by his increased ability to recall information. Again, there are many tasks that Rob was not able to do while at Gaylord that he is doing really well with now. I love seeing the amazing strides he's making.
There is certainly a need for "supervision", but Rob has been encouraged to initiate on his own and take over some responsibilities. He's doing a wonderful job and I always look forward to discussing his accomplishments with his Speech Therapist. He's troubleshooting problems very well and following through on finishing projects. He set up his medicine container for the upcoming week on his own and even without prompting. I did mark the bottles according to the time of day he takes the medicine, but I think he'll be able to continue that responsibility without me having to mark them. I did a quick check to make sure it was done correctly, but also asked him if he had orange and red in the morning and orange and two whites at night and he was able to confirm that. :)
Yesterday was a gorgeous autumn day so we decided to hit the disc golf course. Rob played well for his first time post-accident. He said it was "depressing", but he's just being too hard on himself. I know how frustrating difficulties with vision are. I also found out Friday that I have decreased strength in my right hand, which was sort of surprising to me. I know I've been "trembly", dropping things and having difficulty writing, but I've probably been too busy to notice how weak my right hand is getting. As far as my optic neuritis, there's not much that can be done about the worsening in my vision. My neurologist said it's typical and my eye doctor said we're just going to watch it. I'm noticing a lot of desaturation. Rob has double vision, which is different, but anything that messes up the way you see is frustrating and disturbing. He says he wishes there was a pill he could take that would fix his vision. I feel bad that it's just going to take time to resolve itself. The eye doctor is upset that insurance won't pay for the vision therapist because he says Rob needs therapy, and we know that. He provided Rob with an aid to use at home in addition to the other things he's been doing. Rob goes back to see him in three weeks. The doctor's hoping to be able to progress Rob to prism stickers on his lenses that are able to be changed as his vision gets better. For now, he's just pleased that Rob is comfortable using the glasses and has corrected vision with them. I'm pretty confident Rob won't have his #61 disc golf tag too much longer. He'll be back in the competitive game soon enough. ;)
On our way home from the disc golf course, we figured we'd stop by my brother's house. When we pulled up to the road and Rob saw cars there, he was hesitant for me to stop. With assurance that it was just our sister-in-law's parents, we proceeded. It was a very quick visit, since they were actually heading out to a friend's wedding, which my brother was in, but Rob did get to meet our new nephew and I got to hold his adorable little hand and talk him out of crying for a few moments. :P Rob mentioned that he'd like to follow through on the plan visit with them later this afternoon, so hopefully we'll be able to make that happen. We will be visiting at Rob's parents' house in a little while, though. Optimistically, none of us will be too tired or overwhelmed to keep all our plans for the day. :)
The coming week includes an appointment with the Physiatrist, which is going to be very helpful in coordinating Rob's care, as well as continuing Physical Therapies and Speech Therapies. I have an appointment for another brain MRI in Norwich. It makes me nervous that I have to take my van all that way, but I've been making it so far. Rob is also going to begin seeing the orthopedic doctor for his left knee this week. So, as usual, we'll be busy, busy, busy. It sure does keep us on our toes, though. ;)
There's also much improvement in Rob's Speech Therapy tasks. He's learning how to strategize more effectively, which is demonstrated by his increased ability to recall information. Again, there are many tasks that Rob was not able to do while at Gaylord that he is doing really well with now. I love seeing the amazing strides he's making.
There is certainly a need for "supervision", but Rob has been encouraged to initiate on his own and take over some responsibilities. He's doing a wonderful job and I always look forward to discussing his accomplishments with his Speech Therapist. He's troubleshooting problems very well and following through on finishing projects. He set up his medicine container for the upcoming week on his own and even without prompting. I did mark the bottles according to the time of day he takes the medicine, but I think he'll be able to continue that responsibility without me having to mark them. I did a quick check to make sure it was done correctly, but also asked him if he had orange and red in the morning and orange and two whites at night and he was able to confirm that. :)
Yesterday was a gorgeous autumn day so we decided to hit the disc golf course. Rob played well for his first time post-accident. He said it was "depressing", but he's just being too hard on himself. I know how frustrating difficulties with vision are. I also found out Friday that I have decreased strength in my right hand, which was sort of surprising to me. I know I've been "trembly", dropping things and having difficulty writing, but I've probably been too busy to notice how weak my right hand is getting. As far as my optic neuritis, there's not much that can be done about the worsening in my vision. My neurologist said it's typical and my eye doctor said we're just going to watch it. I'm noticing a lot of desaturation. Rob has double vision, which is different, but anything that messes up the way you see is frustrating and disturbing. He says he wishes there was a pill he could take that would fix his vision. I feel bad that it's just going to take time to resolve itself. The eye doctor is upset that insurance won't pay for the vision therapist because he says Rob needs therapy, and we know that. He provided Rob with an aid to use at home in addition to the other things he's been doing. Rob goes back to see him in three weeks. The doctor's hoping to be able to progress Rob to prism stickers on his lenses that are able to be changed as his vision gets better. For now, he's just pleased that Rob is comfortable using the glasses and has corrected vision with them. I'm pretty confident Rob won't have his #61 disc golf tag too much longer. He'll be back in the competitive game soon enough. ;)
On our way home from the disc golf course, we figured we'd stop by my brother's house. When we pulled up to the road and Rob saw cars there, he was hesitant for me to stop. With assurance that it was just our sister-in-law's parents, we proceeded. It was a very quick visit, since they were actually heading out to a friend's wedding, which my brother was in, but Rob did get to meet our new nephew and I got to hold his adorable little hand and talk him out of crying for a few moments. :P Rob mentioned that he'd like to follow through on the plan visit with them later this afternoon, so hopefully we'll be able to make that happen. We will be visiting at Rob's parents' house in a little while, though. Optimistically, none of us will be too tired or overwhelmed to keep all our plans for the day. :)
The coming week includes an appointment with the Physiatrist, which is going to be very helpful in coordinating Rob's care, as well as continuing Physical Therapies and Speech Therapies. I have an appointment for another brain MRI in Norwich. It makes me nervous that I have to take my van all that way, but I've been making it so far. Rob is also going to begin seeing the orthopedic doctor for his left knee this week. So, as usual, we'll be busy, busy, busy. It sure does keep us on our toes, though. ;)
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
"I well know the pains they suffer." - Exodus 3:7, 8
We have not picked the motorcycle up from Troop D yet. Rob decided he didn't want to go yesterday. I don't know when we're going to pick it up. Not that I really want it here anyway.
Gaylord made a suggestion that Rob and I go to counseling together. I've always hated the idea of talking to a stranger about personal problems and issues. I'm more comfortable praying about things and trying to allow myself to throw my burdens upon God so he can work things out his way. (Ps. 55:22) During Rob's Speech Therapy this morning, his therapist was discussing instruction manuals. She was saying that the people who are paid to write the instruction manuals aren't the inventors of the thing they're writing the instructions on, so how can they really know how it works? My thoughts immediately turned to our Creator and the instruction manual he provided for us, the Bible. (Ps. 139:15, 16; 2 Tim. 3:16, 17)
Talk about being provided "food at the proper time!" (Matt. 24:45) The new magazines I recieved yesterday include an article titled, "How Can You Combat Negative Feelings?" and a five-part Bible-based discussion on the "Five Secrets of Contentment." Continued evidence that God knows what we need and when we need it.
Rob and I talked briefly about the suggestion to go to counseling. It might be beneficial to talk about things and get a "professional's" input. I know, however, that God "knows what things you are needing before you ever ask him." (Matt. 6:8) And I have faith that when life's burdens are thrown upon God, he will provide strength to endure and peace of mind. (Phil. 4:6, 7, 13) While counseling may be an outlet, no human can furnish those things. Although sometimes it's a good idea to vent together, and counseling may be a way for each of us to open up about things we may not feel comfortable about bringing up.
I don't know when we're going to get the bike. Our attorney wants to get the accident reconstructionist over here to look at it, so it will need to be soon. I will need added strength to deal with having that thing sitting outside, that's for sure. Thank God I know where to get it! ;)
Gaylord made a suggestion that Rob and I go to counseling together. I've always hated the idea of talking to a stranger about personal problems and issues. I'm more comfortable praying about things and trying to allow myself to throw my burdens upon God so he can work things out his way. (Ps. 55:22) During Rob's Speech Therapy this morning, his therapist was discussing instruction manuals. She was saying that the people who are paid to write the instruction manuals aren't the inventors of the thing they're writing the instructions on, so how can they really know how it works? My thoughts immediately turned to our Creator and the instruction manual he provided for us, the Bible. (Ps. 139:15, 16; 2 Tim. 3:16, 17)
Talk about being provided "food at the proper time!" (Matt. 24:45) The new magazines I recieved yesterday include an article titled, "How Can You Combat Negative Feelings?" and a five-part Bible-based discussion on the "Five Secrets of Contentment." Continued evidence that God knows what we need and when we need it.
Rob and I talked briefly about the suggestion to go to counseling. It might be beneficial to talk about things and get a "professional's" input. I know, however, that God "knows what things you are needing before you ever ask him." (Matt. 6:8) And I have faith that when life's burdens are thrown upon God, he will provide strength to endure and peace of mind. (Phil. 4:6, 7, 13) While counseling may be an outlet, no human can furnish those things. Although sometimes it's a good idea to vent together, and counseling may be a way for each of us to open up about things we may not feel comfortable about bringing up.
I don't know when we're going to get the bike. Our attorney wants to get the accident reconstructionist over here to look at it, so it will need to be soon. I will need added strength to deal with having that thing sitting outside, that's for sure. Thank God I know where to get it! ;)
Monday, September 27, 2010
The Bike
One of the detectives at Troop D has been pushing for us to pay the towing fee from Benway & Son Auto and find a way to remove the motorcycle from the Troop. So, we went down there today to give them the money for Benway, at least. As soon as we pulled into the driveway at the Troop I spotted the bike. It's right on the other side of the chain link fence in back of the building. It's the first time I've seen the bike since the accident. The first time Rob's seen it since he can remember.
After handing over the check, I asked the detective if we could see the bike. To my surprise, he gladly brought us out back to look at it. I did want to evaluate if it would be possible to get it with a pick-up or if we would need to hire a wrecker, but I was more curious about seeing it up close...and having Rob see it.
I almost lost it! :(
The detective made a comment that it wasn't in "too bad a shape" and I thought, "It isn't?!?!" It was easy to see how Rob fractured his left hand. The handlebar's bent in on that side and the brake's hanging off. Most of the plastics on the left side are missing on the left and broken off in the front. The radiator's smashed in...there's a lot of damage. I probably shouldn't have seen it. I immediately started having visions of how that bike went down, based on the damage it sustained.
We're picking it up tomorrow morning with a good friend's help. We have to bring it home for a little while. Our attorney's going to have the accident reconstructionist come here to take a look at it. Hopefully no one will mess with it while it's parked here. Once we get the okay from our attorney, Rob's going to salvage it. He says there are good parts people would be looking for.
I hope it doesn't send me (further) over the deep end to have that thing out in our parking spot. :S Bleck!
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
After handing over the check, I asked the detective if we could see the bike. To my surprise, he gladly brought us out back to look at it. I did want to evaluate if it would be possible to get it with a pick-up or if we would need to hire a wrecker, but I was more curious about seeing it up close...and having Rob see it.
I almost lost it! :(
The detective made a comment that it wasn't in "too bad a shape" and I thought, "It isn't?!?!" It was easy to see how Rob fractured his left hand. The handlebar's bent in on that side and the brake's hanging off. Most of the plastics on the left side are missing on the left and broken off in the front. The radiator's smashed in...there's a lot of damage. I probably shouldn't have seen it. I immediately started having visions of how that bike went down, based on the damage it sustained.
We're picking it up tomorrow morning with a good friend's help. We have to bring it home for a little while. Our attorney's going to have the accident reconstructionist come here to take a look at it. Hopefully no one will mess with it while it's parked here. Once we get the okay from our attorney, Rob's going to salvage it. He says there are good parts people would be looking for.
I hope it doesn't send me (further) over the deep end to have that thing out in our parking spot. :S Bleck!
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Sleeplessness isn't good.
So, my brother's son is working his way into the world and we are all eager for his grand entrance. It's making for a restless night of excitement and anticipation.
While in a state of insomnia, I have been reminiscing about the experiences I had with the miracle of birth. I vowed I would never put myself through it a second time after somehow surviving Mindy's delivery. Funny how now I feel heartbroken over not having the means for reproduction anymore. The series of events which followed Joel's delivery remind me that I might not have survived the ordeal a third time, quite literally, however. I am so extremely grateful for the blessing of the family we have. :)
I'm trying to figure out how these thoughts turned to my nightmare that began at 11:15 pm on July 22, 2010.
I hate not being able to sleep. My head is spinning in circles of hoping my sister-in-law is doing okay, enduring labor. Then thinking about my go around. And reliving pulling up to the accident scene. I can't begin to fathom why my brain is tying in such wonderful events with such horror. I hate July 22, 2010. I hate the vision of that dreadful motorcycle on the side of the road beyond the commotion of emergency responders and flashing lights. I hate the panic I heard in our children's cries when we saw the pieces of the front end of the bike, crumpled on the road beneath the rear quarter panel of the pick-up, and the helplessness that overcame me as I collapsed to the ground beside the trooper's car. I hate the haunting memory of saying goodbye to Rob as he was prepped for LifeFlight transport, being bagged to pump air into his lungs. I can't imagine what the children were going through as they sat in the hospital parking lot, watching the helicopter take off with their dad and not even able to be comforted by their mom. :(
My thoughts keep circling this way and it's making me crazy! I don't know how traumatic things were for Rob when Joel was whisked away to the NICU and I was taken to emergency surgery. It must not have been pleasant whatsoever. I pray all goes smoothly with our new nephew's delivery. I am ecstatic about welcoming him to the family and am so happy for my brother and sister-in-law that they will soon experience falling in love with their child. I want to be able to fill my sleepless night with pleasant things, not the utter rottenness of July 22, 2010.
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
While in a state of insomnia, I have been reminiscing about the experiences I had with the miracle of birth. I vowed I would never put myself through it a second time after somehow surviving Mindy's delivery. Funny how now I feel heartbroken over not having the means for reproduction anymore. The series of events which followed Joel's delivery remind me that I might not have survived the ordeal a third time, quite literally, however. I am so extremely grateful for the blessing of the family we have. :)
I'm trying to figure out how these thoughts turned to my nightmare that began at 11:15 pm on July 22, 2010.
I hate not being able to sleep. My head is spinning in circles of hoping my sister-in-law is doing okay, enduring labor. Then thinking about my go around. And reliving pulling up to the accident scene. I can't begin to fathom why my brain is tying in such wonderful events with such horror. I hate July 22, 2010. I hate the vision of that dreadful motorcycle on the side of the road beyond the commotion of emergency responders and flashing lights. I hate the panic I heard in our children's cries when we saw the pieces of the front end of the bike, crumpled on the road beneath the rear quarter panel of the pick-up, and the helplessness that overcame me as I collapsed to the ground beside the trooper's car. I hate the haunting memory of saying goodbye to Rob as he was prepped for LifeFlight transport, being bagged to pump air into his lungs. I can't imagine what the children were going through as they sat in the hospital parking lot, watching the helicopter take off with their dad and not even able to be comforted by their mom. :(
My thoughts keep circling this way and it's making me crazy! I don't know how traumatic things were for Rob when Joel was whisked away to the NICU and I was taken to emergency surgery. It must not have been pleasant whatsoever. I pray all goes smoothly with our new nephew's delivery. I am ecstatic about welcoming him to the family and am so happy for my brother and sister-in-law that they will soon experience falling in love with their child. I want to be able to fill my sleepless night with pleasant things, not the utter rottenness of July 22, 2010.
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
2 cm
Rob mentioned at physical therapy this morning that his left knee's been bothering him. He thought it might be due to the stretching exercises he was given to do at home. The therapist went through the exercises with him to make sure his technique was correct, then Rob mentioned that a doctor told him once that he had one leg longer than the other. So, she moved Rob's kneecaps around and moved his legs to find out where his pain is located. She looked at his legs while he was stretched out on the table, with his knees bent, then while he was standing. She took measurements and did determine that his left leg is 2 cm longer than his right leg. She told him that it could cause pain because he would respond by putting more weight on the left leg. (His left knee gave him trouble even before his accident.) She gave him a heel insert for his right sneaker. At first, he said he felt weird walking with it in his shoe. Later, though, he mentioned that he forgot it was even in there. Hopefully it helps ease the pain he's experiencing.
We did have a pretty eventful day today. I think doing too much today may have contributed to a sort-of "crash ending." After therapy, we stopped somewhere to look at a vehicle I was interested in, which sold this morning. :/ Rob's brother stopped over to give him a t-shirt he bought for him at a concert he went to last night. Just before his brother left, a friend stopped by for a minute. We had to go to the store for a few things, and this evening we had dinner plans at Rob's cousin's house.
Rob had been worrying about going to his cousin's house for a few days. I didn't know he was concerned until he mentioned it at speech therapy yesterday morning. His speech therapist did encourage him to try, though. She told him that the more he avoids situations, the scarier they're going to become for him. She also assured him that his family and friends know what he's dealing with and should be able to understand accommodations he needs, or modifications he needs to make to his environment in order to feel more comfortable. (For example, having to step outside or ask for the television to be lowered or turned off.)
So, we went to Rob's cousin's house and his wife went all out with dinner! His cousin was cooking the chicken on the grill. His other cousin stopped over there, too. The baby was playing with her toys. We were looking at some of their wedding pictures from the disposable cameras on the tables and the wedding video was playing on the t.v. The atmosphere was too much of an overload and Rob needed to go outside. I could tell this reaction was different.
He couldn't go back inside. :( We felt really bad, but we had to leave before we ate dinner. I know his cousins understood, but his cousin's wife really outdid herself on dinner so we felt horrible. She sent us off with plenty so we had something to eat when we arrived home, too. What a fabulous hostess! ;)
Rob was really feeling upset about things on the ride home. I completely understand the anxiety he was experiencing. It's something you can't explain and something people who don't go through it can't comprehend. Rob's aware that's he's guilty of not empathizing with this very symptom of mine. I hate that he's becoming more aware of what I've been going through by going through it himself, but I'm glad that we're able to help each other cope with these things on the same level. I told him I was proud of him for going to his cousin's house tonight. We were there for over an hour and had a half-hour ride to get there and back home, so it was a pretty big deal. I would definitely not call the evening a failure.
Next time, even though it's an uncomfortable thing to do, Rob knows he should ask for the television to be shut off. Eliminating that variable would make a difference. I also think evenings are not the best time for "big" things to take place. I know I'm my best earlier in the day and as the day progresses, I lose stamina, patience, and the aches and pains increase. Rob seems to be the same.
Our plan for tomorrow is to take it easy and live simply. :) We'll piddle around the house and will, most likely, have an errand or two to run. For the most part, though, our Wednesday will be for recouperation.
We did have a pretty eventful day today. I think doing too much today may have contributed to a sort-of "crash ending." After therapy, we stopped somewhere to look at a vehicle I was interested in, which sold this morning. :/ Rob's brother stopped over to give him a t-shirt he bought for him at a concert he went to last night. Just before his brother left, a friend stopped by for a minute. We had to go to the store for a few things, and this evening we had dinner plans at Rob's cousin's house.
Rob had been worrying about going to his cousin's house for a few days. I didn't know he was concerned until he mentioned it at speech therapy yesterday morning. His speech therapist did encourage him to try, though. She told him that the more he avoids situations, the scarier they're going to become for him. She also assured him that his family and friends know what he's dealing with and should be able to understand accommodations he needs, or modifications he needs to make to his environment in order to feel more comfortable. (For example, having to step outside or ask for the television to be lowered or turned off.)
So, we went to Rob's cousin's house and his wife went all out with dinner! His cousin was cooking the chicken on the grill. His other cousin stopped over there, too. The baby was playing with her toys. We were looking at some of their wedding pictures from the disposable cameras on the tables and the wedding video was playing on the t.v. The atmosphere was too much of an overload and Rob needed to go outside. I could tell this reaction was different.
He couldn't go back inside. :( We felt really bad, but we had to leave before we ate dinner. I know his cousins understood, but his cousin's wife really outdid herself on dinner so we felt horrible. She sent us off with plenty so we had something to eat when we arrived home, too. What a fabulous hostess! ;)
Rob was really feeling upset about things on the ride home. I completely understand the anxiety he was experiencing. It's something you can't explain and something people who don't go through it can't comprehend. Rob's aware that's he's guilty of not empathizing with this very symptom of mine. I hate that he's becoming more aware of what I've been going through by going through it himself, but I'm glad that we're able to help each other cope with these things on the same level. I told him I was proud of him for going to his cousin's house tonight. We were there for over an hour and had a half-hour ride to get there and back home, so it was a pretty big deal. I would definitely not call the evening a failure.
Next time, even though it's an uncomfortable thing to do, Rob knows he should ask for the television to be shut off. Eliminating that variable would make a difference. I also think evenings are not the best time for "big" things to take place. I know I'm my best earlier in the day and as the day progresses, I lose stamina, patience, and the aches and pains increase. Rob seems to be the same.
Our plan for tomorrow is to take it easy and live simply. :) We'll piddle around the house and will, most likely, have an errand or two to run. For the most part, though, our Wednesday will be for recouperation.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Staying Dry
Today is the second aquatic session Rob chose not to go to. I'm guessing it's not his favorite activity. Surely he feels a bit awkward amongst the group of women, but that shouldn't deter him from the session. We're accepted there without judgment and I'm sure everyone's beginning to wonder why we haven't attended. I'm not going to force him to go, though. These therapies are for his benefit and he's only going to get out of it what he puts into it.
In a little while, we will be going to Speech Therapy. I made sure the homework was completed last night between football games. If his therapist knew that I was the one who made sure it got done, she'd have something to say about that. :P
A little later this afternoon, I'm going to have my turn at a little bit of pampering. ;) It's not a big deal and it will probably more uncomfortable for me than anything else, but my wonderful stylist will be coming by to do my hair. I felt left out a couple of weeks ago when she came and did everyone else's hair. Even the dog went to the groomer that day! :P
Rob got cleared to continue with physical therapy through the neurologist, so his PT sessions will resume beginning tomorrow morning. I don't think he's too excited about that. He's been complaining quite a bit of soreness the last couple of days. :( I guess that's what happens as you're healing.
I'm not sure what's going to come of aquatic therapy. The next one is Wednesday morning. I have a feeling Rob's going to want to forego that session, too. I guess he's not much of a 'water baby.'
In a little while, we will be going to Speech Therapy. I made sure the homework was completed last night between football games. If his therapist knew that I was the one who made sure it got done, she'd have something to say about that. :P
A little later this afternoon, I'm going to have my turn at a little bit of pampering. ;) It's not a big deal and it will probably more uncomfortable for me than anything else, but my wonderful stylist will be coming by to do my hair. I felt left out a couple of weeks ago when she came and did everyone else's hair. Even the dog went to the groomer that day! :P
Rob got cleared to continue with physical therapy through the neurologist, so his PT sessions will resume beginning tomorrow morning. I don't think he's too excited about that. He's been complaining quite a bit of soreness the last couple of days. :( I guess that's what happens as you're healing.
I'm not sure what's going to come of aquatic therapy. The next one is Wednesday morning. I have a feeling Rob's going to want to forego that session, too. I guess he's not much of a 'water baby.'
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Our Family
I'm sure all can agree that our family has suffered the "Job Syndrome." "Although for good [we] waited, yet bad came; And [we] kept awaiting the light, but gloom came." - Job 30:26 The hardships of life in a world under Satan's rule have constantly struck us, seemingly without let-up. (1John 5:19)
Through the power of faith and the desire to please our Heavenly Father, our family remains triumphant over the hurdles attempting to break us down. For that, I am proud. There's an epidemic of family breakdown, yet ours has proven we possess the "threefold cord" which "cannot quickly be torn in two." (Eccl. 4:12) By relying on God and allowing him to sustain us, each trial we endure strengthens us. (Psalm 55:22; James 1:2, 3)
Each member of our family provides a special uniqueness to what makes us "The Comeau Family." Whether finned, four-legged, or human, we all contribute to each other's happiness and comfort. We help to relieve one another's stresses, provide listening ears, bring moments of laughter, and cause senses of security.
We aren't going to let things tear any of us apart. We need each other in more ways than one. We know "God can be relied upon." (1 Co. 1:18) As a family, we will continue enduring together, relying on God and one another for strength, support, and encouragement.
We thank everyone who has felt compelled in their heart to reach out to assist our family through this difficulty.
~ Rob, Crys, Min, Joel, Mei-li, Scribbles, Cyclone, Daisy, Phil, & Callie <3
Through the power of faith and the desire to please our Heavenly Father, our family remains triumphant over the hurdles attempting to break us down. For that, I am proud. There's an epidemic of family breakdown, yet ours has proven we possess the "threefold cord" which "cannot quickly be torn in two." (Eccl. 4:12) By relying on God and allowing him to sustain us, each trial we endure strengthens us. (Psalm 55:22; James 1:2, 3)
Each member of our family provides a special uniqueness to what makes us "The Comeau Family." Whether finned, four-legged, or human, we all contribute to each other's happiness and comfort. We help to relieve one another's stresses, provide listening ears, bring moments of laughter, and cause senses of security.
We aren't going to let things tear any of us apart. We need each other in more ways than one. We know "God can be relied upon." (1 Co. 1:18) As a family, we will continue enduring together, relying on God and one another for strength, support, and encouragement.
We thank everyone who has felt compelled in their heart to reach out to assist our family through this difficulty.
~ Rob, Crys, Min, Joel, Mei-li, Scribbles, Cyclone, Daisy, Phil, & Callie <3
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Party Time ;)
Hopefully, everyone who wanted tickets to Comeau's Cause was able to get some. I was told there would be some tickets available at the door tonight and I know some people will be taking advantage of that provision. Thank you all! :)
We want everyone to enjoy themselves this evening, but hope everyone stays safe and behaves responsibly. (((hugs)))
Rob and I certainly would love to see everybody. Due to overstimulation issues and concerns, we will have to refrain from joining the party. It is our hope that the circumstances improve by April so that all who wish to do so may join us in celebrating our tenth wedding anniversary. :)
Please be sure to sign our family's collage. A lot of effort has been put into tonight's event so have fun! Enter the raffles knowing we're routing for everyone to win. ;)
Oh ~ and save us a couple of those awesome-looking cupcakes. :P
We want everyone to enjoy themselves this evening, but hope everyone stays safe and behaves responsibly. (((hugs)))
Rob and I certainly would love to see everybody. Due to overstimulation issues and concerns, we will have to refrain from joining the party. It is our hope that the circumstances improve by April so that all who wish to do so may join us in celebrating our tenth wedding anniversary. :)
Please be sure to sign our family's collage. A lot of effort has been put into tonight's event so have fun! Enter the raffles knowing we're routing for everyone to win. ;)
Oh ~ and save us a couple of those awesome-looking cupcakes. :P
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Signs Of Neglect
Following up on the lack of information received from my ER visit a couple of weeks ago, I met with my primary care physician this afternoon to see what his opinion is.
I haven't had time to really care about things that were happening to my body. I know I've been forcing myself to keep pressing on while my body was screaming at me to take a break. Isn't that the way it is for women, though? I have children to take care of and educate. I have a husband who needs me to support him as he's recovering. Goodness ~ I even have a dog on antibiotics, looking for love and comfort while she heals.
Now it's my turn and I don't like it. I have too many "turns." Thankfully, it's not the MonSter rearing its ugly head. Turns out, I've been losing a battle against bacteria.
I attribute my susceptibility to the medication I'm on to keep the MonSter at bay. Mix that with a month of being subject to hospital environments and what do I get? An upper respiratory infection, sinus infection, ear infection, and fungal infection in my right hand. :S
Armed with two more medications in my arsenal, I'm ready to continue moving onward. Rob and I will gather the children early tomorrow morning so they can go take care of barn chores while we go to therapies. We'll be declaring our buoyancy from 8 to 9. Getting physical from 10 to 10:45. Then, speaking our minds until 11:30. :)
What has been nice is that Rob has been more involved in the children's homeschooling. I know the kids are enjoying their dad, too.
If you're reading this with disappointment because I've made no mention of Rob's progress, let me provide you happiness by stating that he's doing great. He's been making dinners, taking the dog out to do business, and has even been helping me remember things. He mentioned just this morning that his glasses seem to be getting worse, which probably means his eyes are improving. :) He says he feels as though there's improvement in a few areas, so that's awesome. There is still a long and winding road out yonder, but not impassable. ;) We'll just keep pushing ourselves.
I'm hoping for a piggy-back ride at some point. :P
I haven't had time to really care about things that were happening to my body. I know I've been forcing myself to keep pressing on while my body was screaming at me to take a break. Isn't that the way it is for women, though? I have children to take care of and educate. I have a husband who needs me to support him as he's recovering. Goodness ~ I even have a dog on antibiotics, looking for love and comfort while she heals.
Now it's my turn and I don't like it. I have too many "turns." Thankfully, it's not the MonSter rearing its ugly head. Turns out, I've been losing a battle against bacteria.
I attribute my susceptibility to the medication I'm on to keep the MonSter at bay. Mix that with a month of being subject to hospital environments and what do I get? An upper respiratory infection, sinus infection, ear infection, and fungal infection in my right hand. :S
Armed with two more medications in my arsenal, I'm ready to continue moving onward. Rob and I will gather the children early tomorrow morning so they can go take care of barn chores while we go to therapies. We'll be declaring our buoyancy from 8 to 9. Getting physical from 10 to 10:45. Then, speaking our minds until 11:30. :)
What has been nice is that Rob has been more involved in the children's homeschooling. I know the kids are enjoying their dad, too.
If you're reading this with disappointment because I've made no mention of Rob's progress, let me provide you happiness by stating that he's doing great. He's been making dinners, taking the dog out to do business, and has even been helping me remember things. He mentioned just this morning that his glasses seem to be getting worse, which probably means his eyes are improving. :) He says he feels as though there's improvement in a few areas, so that's awesome. There is still a long and winding road out yonder, but not impassable. ;) We'll just keep pushing ourselves.
I'm hoping for a piggy-back ride at some point. :P
Thursday, September 9, 2010
"I think you need to see this."
Our day began with Rob's Physical Therapy evaluation. That went pretty well. There are notable differences in the strength of his right and left sides, the left being considerably weaker. The plan for PT is to work on stretching, balance, and light strength retraining. We were given exercises for Rob to do at home to stretch out his hamstrings. We were also praised for doing the aquatic therapy, as his Physical Therapist says it'll be a tremendous help.
Thanks to my friendship with "Erika Jones", (haha) I got treated to a new pair of elasticized shoe laces so that I don't have to tie my sneakers. I have a difficult time tying and was only wearing Crocs. The therapists were appalled when they found that out, as they have very negative feelings about Crocs. The Occupational Therapist, Kara, took my sneakers today and changed my shoelaces to these nice elastic ones so I don't have to worry about tying. She doesn't want to hear of me wearing Crocs ever again. :P
Next, we spent four-and-a-half hours at the neurologist's office.
Dr. Smith diagnosed Rob as having Fourth Nerve Palsy in his left eye. This is effecting the eyeball being able to turn down and in, causing his double vision. Obviously, it's acquired, not genetic. Recovery from this is most likely going to take a year, but we're doing the right things. The treatment is the prism lenses glasses and following up with the ophthalmologist.
We discussed Rob's medications, particularly the one he's taking twice a day as an anticonvulsant. Dr. Smith suggested doing an EEG test and an MRI. He said if those tests came back okay, Rob would be able to discontinue that particular medication.
Dr. Smith is also sending Rob for a neuropsychology consultation, which our insurance will not cover. :S He's been wanting me to have one, too, but didn't send me for that reason. In Rob's case, however, it's pretty important to have it done.
The EEG and MRI were both done in Dr. Smith's office this afternoon. The EEG was first and went well. Rob had me take a picture of him with the probes stuck to his head. :P I've had a few EEG's in my lifetime and they were so much worse than Rob's was! Technology sure has changed. I prepared him for something much more uncomfortable.
Thinking things were pretty positive, we went down for Rob's MRI. I was sitting there, waiting patiently with Rob's metal belongings and Memory Book, when the MRI technician asked me about Rob's injury. I told her what happened and she asked if I had a CD of any head scans that had been done. Of course I did! Dr. Smith had already seen them, but I pulled the two CD's out with the head scans on them, feeling proud of myself for being all organized. ;)
Next thing I hear is, "Dr. Smith. I think you need to see this."
An immediate feeling of anxiety came over me. That's never a good thing to hear. I saw Dr. Smith walk up the hallway and into the MRI technician's area, but I couldn't really hear what they were saying to each other. I did finally hear Dr. Smith say, "I'll talk to his wife. She's right out here."
Another sentence that's usually not a good thing to hear.
He told me that Rob has "more than a little" bleeding in his right frontal lobe still. :( He told me that if UMASS had followed up, they would have seen that his bleed had gotten larger than the original CT Scan they did right after his accident. I always wondered why his head was never scanned again! Anyway, Dr. Smith told me UMASS would probably have had the neurosurgeon drain the bleed, since it's a pretty big clot. He doesn't know if surgically draining it would have been a good idea or not, and certainly wouldn't recommend it at this point.
Rob's recovery is definitely going to take a long time. I think things have been looking so positive lately that it was easy to forget the seriousness of his injuries. Dr. Smith assured us that there's nothing we've done that caused the increase in bleeding, and there's nothing we can do but give it time to heal. For now, his medications are going to have to stay the same. The only difference is that the area of the bleed will cause cognitive impairment, so Dr. Smith is holding off on the neuropsychologist consultation for a couple of months. We're going to inform Rob's Speech Therapist tomorrow at his therapy, too.
This scared me a lot. I'm going to try not to be overly nervous about things, but I'm definitely worried that his brain's still bleeding and that it's an area larger than everyone knew about this entire time. Dr. Smith will be following up with Rob in early November and will be doing another MRI to compare. One thing we were given a certain answer on is that Rob will not be returning to work any time in the foreseeable future.
Thanks to my friendship with "Erika Jones", (haha) I got treated to a new pair of elasticized shoe laces so that I don't have to tie my sneakers. I have a difficult time tying and was only wearing Crocs. The therapists were appalled when they found that out, as they have very negative feelings about Crocs. The Occupational Therapist, Kara, took my sneakers today and changed my shoelaces to these nice elastic ones so I don't have to worry about tying. She doesn't want to hear of me wearing Crocs ever again. :P
Next, we spent four-and-a-half hours at the neurologist's office.
Dr. Smith diagnosed Rob as having Fourth Nerve Palsy in his left eye. This is effecting the eyeball being able to turn down and in, causing his double vision. Obviously, it's acquired, not genetic. Recovery from this is most likely going to take a year, but we're doing the right things. The treatment is the prism lenses glasses and following up with the ophthalmologist.
We discussed Rob's medications, particularly the one he's taking twice a day as an anticonvulsant. Dr. Smith suggested doing an EEG test and an MRI. He said if those tests came back okay, Rob would be able to discontinue that particular medication.
Dr. Smith is also sending Rob for a neuropsychology consultation, which our insurance will not cover. :S He's been wanting me to have one, too, but didn't send me for that reason. In Rob's case, however, it's pretty important to have it done.
The EEG and MRI were both done in Dr. Smith's office this afternoon. The EEG was first and went well. Rob had me take a picture of him with the probes stuck to his head. :P I've had a few EEG's in my lifetime and they were so much worse than Rob's was! Technology sure has changed. I prepared him for something much more uncomfortable.
Thinking things were pretty positive, we went down for Rob's MRI. I was sitting there, waiting patiently with Rob's metal belongings and Memory Book, when the MRI technician asked me about Rob's injury. I told her what happened and she asked if I had a CD of any head scans that had been done. Of course I did! Dr. Smith had already seen them, but I pulled the two CD's out with the head scans on them, feeling proud of myself for being all organized. ;)Next thing I hear is, "Dr. Smith. I think you need to see this."
An immediate feeling of anxiety came over me. That's never a good thing to hear. I saw Dr. Smith walk up the hallway and into the MRI technician's area, but I couldn't really hear what they were saying to each other. I did finally hear Dr. Smith say, "I'll talk to his wife. She's right out here."
Another sentence that's usually not a good thing to hear.
He told me that Rob has "more than a little" bleeding in his right frontal lobe still. :( He told me that if UMASS had followed up, they would have seen that his bleed had gotten larger than the original CT Scan they did right after his accident. I always wondered why his head was never scanned again! Anyway, Dr. Smith told me UMASS would probably have had the neurosurgeon drain the bleed, since it's a pretty big clot. He doesn't know if surgically draining it would have been a good idea or not, and certainly wouldn't recommend it at this point.
Rob's recovery is definitely going to take a long time. I think things have been looking so positive lately that it was easy to forget the seriousness of his injuries. Dr. Smith assured us that there's nothing we've done that caused the increase in bleeding, and there's nothing we can do but give it time to heal. For now, his medications are going to have to stay the same. The only difference is that the area of the bleed will cause cognitive impairment, so Dr. Smith is holding off on the neuropsychologist consultation for a couple of months. We're going to inform Rob's Speech Therapist tomorrow at his therapy, too.
This scared me a lot. I'm going to try not to be overly nervous about things, but I'm definitely worried that his brain's still bleeding and that it's an area larger than everyone knew about this entire time. Dr. Smith will be following up with Rob in early November and will be doing another MRI to compare. One thing we were given a certain answer on is that Rob will not be returning to work any time in the foreseeable future.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Using Our Noodles
Rob and I did our first aquatic session this morning. I feel bad that it's a group and Rob's the only male. :/ At least we're doing it together, though.
The instructor kept telling me to keep my pace easy. Rob was doing fantastic! :) He was keeping right up with the anaerobic pace and doing a great job. Toward the end, we used pool noodles and the activity became a bit more intense. Still, Rob kept right up. I tried, but the instructor would almost immediately tell me to keep it at a lower level. :S Rob wasn't feeling any immediate soreness. I don't know if that'll change later this evening or tomorrow, but I was feeling it in my inner thighs and stomach right away. :P
A little later this morning, Rob had Speech Therapy at Day Kimball. He met with Tina today. She'll be working with him throughout his Speech Therapy. She liked Rob's Memory Book, but she noticed that all the writing in it has been done by me to this point. She would like to see Rob making more use of the book and especially using the "Notes" section to jot down symptoms, questions, goals, or whatever he would like to remember to ask someone/tell someone about.
They worked on more of the SCATBI testing. For the most part, Rob did pretty well. There were more complex tasks that were posing a challenge for him, but when he used paper to outline the information, he was able to complete the tasks better. ;)
Rob did write down the ingredients and steps for making chili. We added it to his Memory Book and will hopefully be making it soon. He has been doing fine with cooking burgers and making sandwiches. We can't even try the grill right now because we don't have propane for it. :( I didn't know that. I bought some special burgers that have to be prepared on the grill. I guess we'll have to try to fill the tank soon so we can attempt the grill.
The instructor kept telling me to keep my pace easy. Rob was doing fantastic! :) He was keeping right up with the anaerobic pace and doing a great job. Toward the end, we used pool noodles and the activity became a bit more intense. Still, Rob kept right up. I tried, but the instructor would almost immediately tell me to keep it at a lower level. :S Rob wasn't feeling any immediate soreness. I don't know if that'll change later this evening or tomorrow, but I was feeling it in my inner thighs and stomach right away. :P
A little later this morning, Rob had Speech Therapy at Day Kimball. He met with Tina today. She'll be working with him throughout his Speech Therapy. She liked Rob's Memory Book, but she noticed that all the writing in it has been done by me to this point. She would like to see Rob making more use of the book and especially using the "Notes" section to jot down symptoms, questions, goals, or whatever he would like to remember to ask someone/tell someone about.
They worked on more of the SCATBI testing. For the most part, Rob did pretty well. There were more complex tasks that were posing a challenge for him, but when he used paper to outline the information, he was able to complete the tasks better. ;)
Rob did write down the ingredients and steps for making chili. We added it to his Memory Book and will hopefully be making it soon. He has been doing fine with cooking burgers and making sandwiches. We can't even try the grill right now because we don't have propane for it. :( I didn't know that. I bought some special burgers that have to be prepared on the grill. I guess we'll have to try to fill the tank soon so we can attempt the grill.
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
○Spectacles○
Rob got his glasses today. One pair for reading and another pair for all-the-time use. I guess they're not meeting his expectations. :(As anyone with glasses knows, when you first get a new prescription, it takes a day or so to get used to to the new lenses. I don't know if Rob's just trying to deal with the 'newness' of having glasses, but he keeps saying he thinks he's better off without them. :/
I hope he'll give them a couple days to see if they're making a difference or not. This is a pretty expensive trial! :S I think his reading pair work better for him than the other prescription.
We're both hoping these work out for him. He's not going to need these long-term, but it would certainly be better worth the money if they help to correct his double vision, or make him more comfortable until it subsides.
(He looks cute, though. ♥)
Monday, September 6, 2010
Another first's been achieved! :)
:D Rob cooked supper this evening!
I know he wished he could've cooked on the grill, but he cooked up some burgers his mother gave us for supper. It was awesome to have him in the kitchen cooking! :)
This was a goal he was shooting for in Speech Therapy, so this is fantastic. I guess the next step will be to get him back behind the grill. ;)
I know he wished he could've cooked on the grill, but he cooked up some burgers his mother gave us for supper. It was awesome to have him in the kitchen cooking! :)
This was a goal he was shooting for in Speech Therapy, so this is fantastic. I guess the next step will be to get him back behind the grill. ;)
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Comeau's Cause
The community is being very generous with regard to donating items for Comeau's Cause. I'm not sure of everything that's going on, but I do know that Crabtree & Evelyn donated a lavendar gift basket for the raffle, worth something like $70. Harrisville Golf Course donated a gift certificate for 2 people to play 9 holes, including a cart. The Dempsey Greenhouse is putting something together for the raffle, too, I'm told. I know many others have donated baskets and things to be raffled off at the benefit, plus the organizing of the evening by my sister-in-law, and the Music Lady's generosity, so I hope there's lots of support and appreciation shown for the time and effort that's being put into this event. :)
I make mention of the Cause, again, because there's only one week left to purchase tickets and/or turn the ticket money in. My sister-in-law needs to have a head count for the facility by Saturday, September 11th. If you haven't bought your tickets yet, please do so this week.
Again ~ thanks to all who are contributing to the evening! (((hugs)))
I make mention of the Cause, again, because there's only one week left to purchase tickets and/or turn the ticket money in. My sister-in-law needs to have a head count for the facility by Saturday, September 11th. If you haven't bought your tickets yet, please do so this week.
Again ~ thanks to all who are contributing to the evening! (((hugs)))
Friday, September 3, 2010
♪♥♫◦°°•°°◦♫♥♪bRaVo♪♥♫◦°°•°°◦♫♥♪
Rob had his Speech Therapy evaluation this morning. It went tremendously well! :) The improvements he's made are remarkable. We're going to need to utilize his Memory Book a bit more and we need to start switching roles to allow Rob to keep track of his appointments and let me know when we have to be somewhere. ;) He can do it! He was passing the SCATBI test with flying colors this morning. His therapist gave him homework, too. When we go back for Speech next Wednesday, he's supposed to bring an outline of two of his favorite meals to cook. He's also supposed to bring his Memory Book so we can be shown how to utilize it more effectively for Rob's specific needs. I'm really looking forward to it.
From Day Kimball, I thought we should take a drive to Loos & Company to say hello and express our thanks in person for everything they've done for us. Sadly, Rob was hoping to catch his supervisor, but we were informed that he took a couple of days off to be with his son who's up from North Carolina on military leave right now. However, Rob was able to see a few people and I'm pretty confident that he brightened a couple of people's day. ;)
Rob's stamina is really improving a lot. We had a few errands to run in the early part of the day and he did really well through all of it. Probably better than I was doing! :P He's also getting back to doing things he used to enjoy, which is wonderful. He's been spending time on his computer in the game room, listening to music, doing his vision exercises by himself. He spent the afternoon yesterday reading this entire blog! :O It amazed him to read everything that was going on. He's been expressing his sorrow for "putting me through this." I took vows and I'm okay with holding up to my end of the bargain. ♥
This afternoon, I left Rob home with Joel. Eeeek! :P It made me nervous at first, but his progress has been incredible. Besides, I only drove to the post office to throw some mail in the box and came right home. ;) There's no doubt in my mind that Rob will have an amazing recovery. He should be a spokesman for helmet awareness or something. Yes, he still has issues, and it's to be expected, but his crash was very serious. The fact that he's only six weeks post-injury and doing this well speaks volumes. I can only imagine how his progress will soar once he gets his glasses. It's going to be so exciting! :)
From Day Kimball, I thought we should take a drive to Loos & Company to say hello and express our thanks in person for everything they've done for us. Sadly, Rob was hoping to catch his supervisor, but we were informed that he took a couple of days off to be with his son who's up from North Carolina on military leave right now. However, Rob was able to see a few people and I'm pretty confident that he brightened a couple of people's day. ;)
Rob's stamina is really improving a lot. We had a few errands to run in the early part of the day and he did really well through all of it. Probably better than I was doing! :P He's also getting back to doing things he used to enjoy, which is wonderful. He's been spending time on his computer in the game room, listening to music, doing his vision exercises by himself. He spent the afternoon yesterday reading this entire blog! :O It amazed him to read everything that was going on. He's been expressing his sorrow for "putting me through this." I took vows and I'm okay with holding up to my end of the bargain. ♥
This afternoon, I left Rob home with Joel. Eeeek! :P It made me nervous at first, but his progress has been incredible. Besides, I only drove to the post office to throw some mail in the box and came right home. ;) There's no doubt in my mind that Rob will have an amazing recovery. He should be a spokesman for helmet awareness or something. Yes, he still has issues, and it's to be expected, but his crash was very serious. The fact that he's only six weeks post-injury and doing this well speaks volumes. I can only imagine how his progress will soar once he gets his glasses. It's going to be so exciting! :)
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)